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Hmmm… Happy belated Jesus-was-resurrected-if-the-events-in-this-’bible’-are-actually-true Day!!! Hahahha. Obviously, I’m not the religious one… But hey, I’m spiritual and that’s all that matters!

My Easter was okay, I guess. My dad and little brother were in Texas with my dad’s family due to a family death (unfortunately, not all of us could be there), so the rest of us got together for brunch and some chit-chat. Easter is just not that big of a deal to us, but we had a meal together, then went on with our day like any other. The only thing Easter-y about my day was eating the head off of a chocolate bunny!

Oh, speaking of eating!!! I gave up meat… again! Well, I gave up poultry and red meat… The only meat I’m eating now is fish… and eggs, but I consider those dairy since they’re technically never ‘fertilized’ so it’s never REALLY an animal… Anyway! That’s my story. And, no, I don’t really have any reasoning behind my semi-vegetarian choices. I’ve never really been a fan of the industrial farming of animals and whatnot, but I also like to set myself short-term goals and give myself a mental high-five when I complete it. I’m taking it day by day to see how far I can go. And frankly… I feel good!!! It’s been a week, and at first I felt really sick and weak, but now I’m feeling healthier! Go, me!

In other news… My friend James McSweeney came to town!!! (If you don’t know who he is, he was a contestant on Spike TV’s The Ultimate Fighter.) We met in Vegas during UFC 108 through mutual friends and have kept in contact since. He’s sort of adopted me as a little sister. He fucks with me like a big brother would, makes fun of me, but also looks out for me. He’s an awesome guy. Well, he came out to LA to shoot some TV stuff and to do a photo shoot, so I kept him company when I could. It was so nice to see him again. I believe he’s coming back in a week or so… Yay!!!

Me and James McSweeney.

I managed to get in some content shoots this week! Finally!!! It’s been a while since I shot for my site since I stepped back to breathe for a bit! I went back into the studio a few days ago and got a couple GREAT scenes in. I shot a hot girl/girl scene with Madison Scott, a cute, bubbly little blonde. Unlike my usual, DARK style, we went for something a little more colorful for our theme, and, as much as I HATED my rainbow thigh-highs and the bathtub full of GLITTER, the scene went very smoothly and had great, constant energy! Good!!! I needed a good lesbian update!

That's me… and Madison's tiny ass behind me…

The second scene, however, was a bit… er… DIFFERENT! But, good-different! I dressed myself in red fishnet stockings and red satin gloves (yep, that’s it!), so the red brought out the devil in me! Poor Natasha Nice!!! Derrick Pierce and I beat the little nice girl up!!! Exact words from the crew: “That was the most intense scene we’ve ever shot!” Jayden Jaymes doesn’t fuck around… Especially when my parter in crime Derrick is present! We make a good tag-team! But, in all fairness, he roughed me up, too. But I like that shit! I believe Natasha did, too. She admitted that it was ROUGH, but she never stopped us when we were slapping, choking and spitting… God damn, it was HOT!!! I can’t wait for that one to go up on the site!!! Yummy!!!!!

The DEVIL!!!

I spent my day yesterday in San Diego doing live solo shows for Naughty America. I dressed up as a secretary for the first one, a teacher for the second, and, well, NOTHING for the last one! lol. I never actually play into the roles, it’s too cheesy for me, so I just fuck around and crack jokes! Seriously, I’m far from sexy… I’m just a big goofball! I can’t sit there and talk dirty to a camera… It’s not me! So I goof off and, surprisingly, I get a lot of people attending and LOVING every minute!!! And my last show… Well… I was kinda bored with myself so I made use of the only fun thing on set… SHAVING CREAM!!!!

It was EVERYWHERE!!!!

Wow! It was a MESS!!! But so much fun!!! Oh, and to put a HUGE SMILE on my face for the day… I got a delivery while in the studio… FLOWERS!!!!!!!! A HUMONGOUS bouquet of beautiful spring time flowers. Everyone was extremely jealous… Made me feel even better! Hahahahaha. The secret sender will remain a secret… But I’m definitely spoiled!!!

OH!!!! Look what I got in the mail!!!!

2010 AVN 'Best Group Sex Scene' for Wicked Pictures' 2040.

Thank you, Wicked, for spending so much money in AVN advertising and basically buy the award for all 12 of us participants! It’s greatly appreciated. Hehehehehe. I think I want to shoot a solo for my website… Using my ‘prestigious’ award… Not inserting, obviously! That’s TOO BIG!!! Maybe just some external play. Hmmm…

Okay… Goodnight!

Rawr!!!

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It’s only illegal if you get caught, right???

Hahahahahahaha!!!

I’m gonna have some fun! I got some new stickers for fun and I’m gonna go straight guerilla style and tag up the Huntington Beach and Los Angeles areas as much as possible! And, if I’m ever visiting anywhere else, I’ll let y’all know and you can keep your eyes peeled…

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Spot one… Send me a pic of you posing with it (Twitter, MySpace, My Forum, etc.) and I’ll get you an autographed DVD or 8×10 or something, along with a sticker to tag up your hood. One per person, while supplies are in stock!

Let’s have some fucking FUN with our porn, huh??? Hehehehehehe.

There’s only one out right now and I’ll give the hint: Fast food drive-thru in Huntington Beach! lol. But expect a lot more SOON!

Happy hunting everyone!

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You know, I really don’t even know where to start with this one. My head is pounding horribly and I’m trying to not resort to the use of Ambien and sleep just yet and try to get things done before my shoot tomorrow… All the while, try to handle my phone blowin’ up with business and, of course, drama. FFFFUUUUUUUCCKK that! I’ve got enough of my own right now!

So, my day… Did I get your attention yet? Because this is good…

I flew out this morning to shoot for an internet network who I absolutely LOVE. They’ve been nothing but good to me since day one and have played such a big role in making my name what it is today. On top of that, I’ve always had a pretty damn good rapport with all of the directors, making my days and my shoots with them a hell of a lot easier. They are one of the handful of companies that I continue to shoot with as I step away from the business because I like them so much.

Well, there’s a producer that I have had kind of a rocky relationship with over the last couple of years and, to be completely honest, I have NO IDEA why. The guy makes me a little nervous, but I’m not usually one to tense up. I think maybe I’ve just had one too many randomly bad days on set in his presence which has made interaction a bit rough. However, I approached this producer a while back via email. We exchanged a few, I apologized, he apologized, and we sort of wiped the slate clean. After that, bookings were handled directly between the two of us and all was well. Granted, he knows I’m quite the picky little princess and my anxiety likes to skyrocket at unusual times, we were civil.

Until today.

7:30am flight… I was in the makeup chair around 9:30, done around 11-ish. Well, while the makeup artist was putting the final touches on me, another female talent had just arrived, this one being one that I don’t particularly like and is on my no list, but I kept quiet about it. I casually mentioned to the makeup artist, “Where’s the girl I’m supposed to be working with?”

“That’s her… ********.”

“No… That’s not what my shooting info said a few days ago…”

I went back to double check my emails and sure enough, the girl that had walked in was NOT the one listed on my call sheet. I pulled the production manager aside, quietly, behind closed doors and everything, and asked what the deal was and why talent was changed. Obviously, the original girl cancelled and ******** was a replacement. I explained to him that I would not work with this girl, she is on my ‘no list’ and there was no fighting it… I wasn’t going to do it.

(As a side note, let me explain me choice to add this girl to my extensive no list. She is a hooker. We all know that I’m not a fan. I’m in this business strictly as an entertainment business, not to hook. Yeah, yeah, we’re all having sex for money, whatever. I get it. No use in arguing about it. Most girls do it. I don’t. But most do. I have a lot of friends that do it. Do what you wanna do. However, there’s a big difference between the girls getting paid $2500-$5000 and hour, seeing higher quality men, using condoms and being safe. Then, there’s the dirty ones, with lower hourly rates, turning several tricks a day with anyone and everyone, so desperate for money to blow that they’re not afraid to lose that condom if it means an extra hundred bucks or so in their pocket. It’s disgusting. Yeah, we’re in a business where we all have sex with each other and, in one way or another, I’m having sex with this nasty hooker’s leftovers on camera. But I’m at a point in my career where I don’t even deal with it. If I hear stories or find out some dirty info, I no-list that person. I put myself and my body and my health at risk every time I shoot a scene, so I am not about to put myself in a situation where the stakes are even higher to my knowledge. It’s my body… I have every right to choose who I have sex with, on or off camera. So, knowing and hearing things about ********, she was no-listed long ago.)

When Mr. Producer booked ******** as a replacement, he forgot one important factor when pairing talent… Check the no list! Apparently I’m not on her list, but she was on mine and that’s the one they forgot. The production manager openly admitted to me that it was his fault, he should’ve sent me the info, etc., and he apologized. Regardless, I wasn’t doing the scene. I felt really bad, and I even got teary eyed explaining the situation to the manager because not only did they fly us there to shoot the scene, but I hate to be made out to look like the bad guy in situations like this. But, he kept apologizing, as did I, and he kept reassuring me that it was their fault.

Well… Mr. High & Mighty Producer Man didn’t like this. Apparently he had a bad couple of days and was now going to take it out on me instead of admitting that HE was the one that fucked up and booked a girl without checking with me and now was stuck with two girls, in another state, one of which refused to touch the other even prior to this shoot. Of course, to him, being  that I already have this horrible ‘bitch’ reputation, why not just pin it all on me, right?! The prick had the nerve to have his production manager tell me that I either do the scene or I can just go home. ME?! The one that’s already done with hair and makeup? The one who has been on this scene from the get-go? The one who DIDN’T fuck up in this situation? I was LIVID! I started crying and yelling at the production manager (who I’ve always considered a friend), not yelling in hate, but yelling because, YET AGAIN, Jayden Jaymes is made out to be the colossal bitch when really it was not my fault and I was just trying to do what is right to me. But, of course, you know that after I leave, it’s going to be, “Wow! I can’t believe Jayden walked out on our shoot! She’s such a bitch! We’ll never hire her again!” kind of shit. It’s not fair! But, at the same time, I walked out with my head held high knowing that I stuck to the morals that I have…

Oh, and to top it off, apparently I wasn’t worthy of a kill fee… because it’s all MY fault, right?! And, being that my return flight wasn’t until 6:30pm, I had to fork out $110 to change my flight to get home since they refused to pay it… even though THEY fucked up… Not ME!

Frankly, this was MY scene… the other bitch should’ve been going home… right?!?!?!

While sitting in the airport for 3 1/2 hours, I made plenty of phone calls trying to get the situation handled appropriately so that I’m not made into the bitch and so that this company knew exactly what kind of disrespectful person they had working for them over there. Where I’m at now is expecting a phone call tomorrow afternoon with some ‘options’ for me, whatever that means.

I will say this just to make it very clear. I LOVE this company and have never had anything bad to say about them ever. This producer though… I can’t believe how disrespected and low I feel over my own personal choices to not have sex with someone. This is my health! How do you treat someone that way that doesn’t want to unnecessarily add to the risks she already takes. Those are the actions of an absolutely horrible human being. I hope that something will be said and/or done about the situation now that it’s come to their attention. I would hate for anyone else to be treated so harshly. But, leave it to the ‘bitch’ to go put it on her blog, right? Ha!

(Yes, for once, I left names out. I needed to vent and get it off my chest, but being that I love these guys, I’m not about to put anyone on blast, at least not yet. It’s a great, big, fucked up mix-up solely by this producer and NOT the company, but they’re working on it for me and I greatly appreciate that. Just wanted to point it out, again… This whole ‘bitch’ reputation, for what exactly?!?!?!)

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